Ever heard of cuckolding?

Posted 7 years, 1 month ago by Glenn Wood

Porn has lots of niches. If you take a closer look, you will see that many of these fetishes has been around since the beginning of humanity. One of such fetishes is cuckolding. So let's find out what cuckolding really is.



The names "cuckold", "cuckolding" and "cuckoldry" derive from the cuckoo bird. "And what the f... it has in common with some birds? " - you may ask. Well, the answer is easy. Said bird lays its eggs in the nests of other birds, that are unaware that these new little birdies are not their own children... and they raise them as their own. So basically – cuckolding is about infidelity. But not a typical infidelity, like you may find in any patriarchal society (remember Silvio Berlusconi from Italy?), but something new and different. This time the person who is in charge and let to be infidel is the woman/ wife, and the side in cuckold relationship that is a "victim" is a male/ husband. Did I say victim? Well, it is not really like that, as both sides in such relation are satisfied and happy. Wife, because she gets new sexual partner that knows how to fuck, and the man...for various reasons.

Cuckolding is related to BDSM, in that way that the side that is dominating in such relation is a female and the side that is definitely submissive and passive is a husband. So what makes cuckolding so exciting for males and females?

The biggest sexual organ of every male is not his penis, but his brain. To put it simple – hard cock is just a "result" of having brain sexually stimulated. But what is sexual stimulation and what makes erotica and sexual fantasies so exciting? Well, the reason is simple – breaking social laws, boundaries and custom. And this is what makes cuckolding so sexually stimulating for so many couples. Why? In typical socially accepted relationship - in most of the cultures – male is a dominating side that usually has its last word and decides about everything. In cuckold type of relation – it is exactly the opposite. The wife receives not only a male that knows how to take care of her (the husband) , but also – the other man that knows exactly well how to satisfy her needs. Guy/ husband that already had some masochist sexual fantasies in life, gets his kicks from watching his wife fucked by "bull" – the other man (very often – bigger and stronger).

What makes cuckold relation kind of unique is the fact that the wife still loves his husband, just like he still loves her. They still want to be in emotional union (so it is not like in swinging type of relation, where both sides look for "romance" type of thing, with emotional engagement), the only thing that they look for in "cuckolding" is a sexual stimulation.



Cuckold relation is also based on some kind of humiliation, and the side that gets humiliated in such relation is a man. Cuckoldress – as this is how you call dominating wife in cuckold relation – very often humiliates her husband, saying that he has a small penis and can't satisfy her sexual needs. Sometimes such humiliation games leads to more "extreme" fun, like putting husband's cock into male's chastity device and not letting him to have an orgasm. That way husband gets humiliated even more and the wife gets even more control. Some even say that many men can fulfil their bisexual fantasies in cuckold type relationship...

There are also of course other motivation of cuckolds (or cucks) , and not every cuckold has to be submissive. Some of cuckolded husband are actually proud that their wife is happy if she can get properly satisfied with other man ; in such cases it would mean that such husbands are proud of their wives' sexual liberation.

The science summarize cuckolding phenomenon with these words: "When an otherwise well-controlled heterosexual male dares to visually create his wife’s violating her marital vows, and possibly his even encouraging her to do so, he’s playing a vital role in what we might call a ‘double transgression’ of society’s norms. Voluntarily fantasizing himself as a cuckold, yet fully in charge of his cuckoldry, his ‘forbidden fantasies’ may be particularly gratifying.” says Dr David J Ley. I wouldn't say it better myself, maybe that's why I still don't have PhD ;-)

If you ever wanted to try cuckolding – without taking any possible social risk, you should definitely check out these three – probably the best – cuckold sites: Cuckold Sessions, Divine Bitches and Candy Monroe.



The first site is dedicated to socially shocking cuckolding, as it presents poor white husbands cuckolded by their sexy wives that just happen to love their big BLACK bulls... Divine Bitches on the other hand is a femdom site, that – from time to time – updates with the new cuckold episode. And last but not least – CandyMonroe.com advertises itself as a Queen of Cuckolding , and I must admit – that lovely blonde milf is just amazing cuckoldress! I personally tested and loved all of these sites!